Solo travel is an exciting and life-changing experience, but it’s not without its challenges. Reflecting on my journey, there are a few things I wish I had known beforehand that would have made the experience smoother and more enjoyable. If you’re planning to travel alone, here are ten things I learned the hard way that could help you get the most out of your adventure.
1. You’ll Get Really Comfortable with Yourself
At first, the idea of traveling alone was intimidating. However, as time went on, I quickly realized that I actually enjoyed my own company. Solo travel forces you to get comfortable with who you are and to move at your own pace. You’re no longer adjusting to a group’s schedule or compromising on what you want to do. There’s something incredibly empowering about making decisions based on your own desires, without worrying about anyone else.
2. You’re Not the Only One
It can feel lonely to travel alone, but you’re definitely not the only one. There are plenty of solo travelers out there, especially in popular destinations. When I first ventured to South America, I was worried about being a solo female traveler. But once I arrived, I met many others traveling on their own, and the fear I had before the trip quickly disappeared. While it’s important to stay informed about your destination, don’t let exaggerated media portrayals stop you from enjoying your adventure.
3. A Few Extra Dollars for a Dorm Room Goes a Long Way
When it comes to accommodation, spending an extra dollar or two for a safer, more comfortable dorm room can make a huge difference. I found that booking a female-only dorm not only provided me with peace of mind but also introduced me to other solo travelers, many of whom became my travel companions. In some places, the price difference between a private room and a dorm is minimal, but the added safety and comfort of a more private space can be well worth it.
4. Get a Local SIM Card
When I first started traveling, I tried to save money by avoiding a local SIM card. However, staying connected is essential for safety and convenience. A local SIM ensures you have reliable access to maps, information, and communication with friends or family. Whether it’s for calling a taxi late at night or just keeping your loved ones updated, having a good mobile connection can make solo travel a lot easier.
5. Sometimes You Need Your Own Space
Staying in hostels is one of the best ways to meet people and save money, but after a few weeks, having some alone time can be invaluable. A private room every now and then can help recharge your batteries. In cities, a private room on Airbnb can sometimes be cheaper than staying in a dorm. After spending a lot of time in shared spaces, I learned the importance of giving myself a break and enjoying some solitude.
6. Trust Your Instincts
When you’re traveling solo, your intuition becomes an important tool for staying safe and making decisions. I once went on a solo hike in Santiago and, halfway through, I became overcome with fear and paranoia. Thoughts of what could go wrong started flooding my mind. But after retracing my steps and meeting other hikers, I realized my fears were largely unfounded. Trust your gut—if something feels off, it’s okay to turn around, but if you feel safe, don’t let fear control you.
7. It’s Okay to Lie Occasionally
As a solo traveler, sometimes it’s wise to be cautious with the information you share. I’ve often told taxi drivers or strangers that I was meeting someone or had a friend waiting for me at my accommodation. I rarely divulge too much personal information, especially about being a solo traveler or where I’m from. Wait until you feel comfortable with someone before sharing more details about your travels.
8. Learn the Local Language
While many places cater to English speakers, learning some basic phrases in the local language can enhance your experience. I took a week of Spanish lessons in Bolivia, and it was invaluable. Being able to ask for directions or order food in the local language not only made navigating easier but also helped me connect with locals on a deeper level. Even a little effort goes a long way.
9. Don’t Feel Guilty About Skipping Activities or Destinations
It’s easy to feel like you need to do everything that other travelers are doing. I had a friend who felt guilty about skipping a trip to the Amazon Rainforest in Bolivia, just because other travelers made it sound like a must-do experience. But the reality is, you don’t have to follow everyone else’s itinerary. Sometimes the best experiences come from doing what you love, not from ticking off a list of popular destinations.
10. Go at Your Own Pace
In the beginning, I used to meticulously plan every detail of my trips. I wanted to know exactly where I was going and what I would be doing at all times. But over time, I became more relaxed with my plans. I’m now comfortable with booking just a few nights ahead, and I’ve learned to embrace spontaneity. Solo travel is about creating your own path, so don’t rush into making plans months in advance if that doesn’t suit your style. Trust yourself to find your rhythm and enjoy the journey at your own pace.
